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We all have vocal cords, but that doesn’t mean that everyone can sing or even want to. Similarly, everyone can have a clitoris, but not all women masturbate.

Kinsey concluded that about 30% of women “do not respond sexually.” At the same time, because he was simply documenting what women were telling him, his report made every woman an authority on orgasm. No one has questioned the biological, physiological and psychological mechanisms that could justify how these orgasms are achieved.

“If the mountain does not reach Muhammad, then Muhammad must go to the mountain!” Kinsey found that only some women respond sexually, but the female orgasm has been redefined today in emotional terms to be “achievable” by more women.

These are ’emotional orgasms’ because they depend on a loving relationship. The sexual response is subconscious, so a woman cannot consciously choose to orgasm with a man because she loves him and not with another because she does not love him.

Some women are promiscuous simply as a form of experimentation. Women also benefit economically or politically through sex. Women enjoy casual sex, not for the orgasm but for the thrill of the chase, the compliment, the novelty, and the sexual ego. A woman cannot use a man’s body for orgasm, but she can play on her insecurities as a lover.

Anyone in the sex industry (including therapists) makes money from a positive spin on women’s sexuality. But Kinsey pointed out that in many cases therapists are peddling false hope to women who naturally lack the erotic responses necessary for orgasm.

A fair picture of heterosexuality cannot be presented without recognizing the advantage for women who respond as lovers by pretending to be sexually aroused or who appeal to male fantasies by speaking about sex as if it were orgasmic for women.

But it is not objective research to assume that intercourse is orgasmic for women and then to try to invent ways to “test” how women respond to vaginal stimulation.

Men enjoy foreplay because it increases their own arousal. Women do not have the same incentive to stimulate a man because doing so does not arouse him in the same way. Hence, many women never voluntarily offer any sexual pleasure.

A man appreciates a lover who responds in some way when making love. A woman needs to anticipate and also offer more explicit pleasures. Men don’t always want to be in the position of having to ask. They want to imagine that a woman could enjoy giving them pleasure. This is part of the fantasy to some extent.

When we talk about a person being sexual, we often talk about their ability to reach orgasm. But orgasm only lasts a few seconds. A woman’s sexuality revolves more around her ability to arouse a partner and please a lover through sex.

The ideal female lover plays an active role in sex. She responds to suggestions for intimate time together and is willing to explore more adventurous sex games.

An unresponsive lover leads to male performance problems. A woman’s generosity depends on the man’s sensitivity to her needs and the quality of the relationship.

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